Happiness comes with pain!!

Hello Friends,

Story begins: 

Note: The above story is not related to anyone and it is an example to support my topic!!

Happiness is a wonderful word she have ever known when she get a chance to see her parents. Not because they will take away her pain but they make her believe that they are behind her to support in her troubles and hurdles she face in her life.

This lady wasn’t happy at all living a life of a stranger in her own country, working a job which has no meaning in her career and trying to be a good wife to a wonderful husband. She was already annoyed with the stress at work but one day she realized that she was getting appreciation all of a sudden. Her colleagues were good these days and she wasn’t feeling betrayed in the company and her managers understand her work. 

Then she thought, maybe I have got happiness after a while though I have been struggling to enjoy it. But, does happiness comes for just a small appreciation at work?

Is being happy is so easy and all you need to do is to be positive?
Is being happy is to keep your family members happy?
Is being happy is to convey your love to your hubby?
Why only pain gains before happiness?

She finally thought happiness is because of her thinking and she feel optimistic that she has been respected at work. One fine day she got to know the news of her becoming a mother and then she thought is it this called happiness?

 As she was optimistic about the baby in her belly and suddenly her optimism raised a lot that everything around her was less stress and her main importance was to protect her baby to grow within her. There is a saying that: “nothing happens until or unless the universe wants to”!!
She thought may be god has a way to show her the true self of being happy is giving birth to a life!!

Is saving a life or giving birth to a life gives happiness?

Can pain be stopped if a life is struggling to live?

Happiness laughs at pain once it overcomes its stage of negativity to optimistic ideas.
She was the happiest person though she was in pain due to work and family but she thought she can manage and what she waited for is to see her baby’s face. Suddenly, an incident shocked her mentally which made her to be in unknown pain than happiness. Her baby tried to make her happy from inside her belly but she was not at all happy and her baby died and she got to see her baby’s face finally with pain of parting from her.

Can she be normal now with her baby’s death? Can she mourn for her baby or she can pray to god for happiness?

A little life in her managed to take her pain to give her happiness but why couldn’t she return the happiness by taking the pain by herself?

She then learnt that its not happiness or pain but Life is a process of happiness with pain which teaches you to suffer and love.

She learnt the true meaning of grieving and a true meaning of love. Life is very small to waste it with all these ideas so, people try to think about how to live this small life with big aims and less thinking and more hardworking!!

Note: The above story is not related to anyone and it is an example to support my topic!!



Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

A Woman who has NO TAG!!

Image
Am just sharing a success story of a Woman who never wore this Tag. She completed her PHD and then her family members expected her to be in one of those Tagged Companies,not because she will earn Money but they can share their pride of honor by telling to everyone about her's Tagged Company. It might be a MNC or a company which is well known but they wanted her to be Tagged!! The next day of her convocation she went to her parents and asked them that she wanted to get married. Her parents got shocked by the news as every girl of her age wants to join in those tagged companies but she thought of getting settled. They tried to make her understand the meaning of "Being Independent" but what she said is that, "I want to get married first and then wanted to work". So, her parents got convinced and decided to made her marry a very good reputed tagged company bridegroom. She asked that bridegroom only one thing which obviously,he obeyed and the thing is th...
Read more

Dear Grandpa.......

Image
Dear Grandpa "The Chocolatier", Am getting used to this new environment you have chosen for me, you always dream of me having a good life and being happy. Being a girl,you never showed any inequality between me and my siblings and you always supported me to do the right things in life. As, you are watching me from heaven now, i would like to dedicate these posts in the form of a letter to you. Dearly Grandpa, you made me promise that, i should be in a good position in life, when you are sick and about to leave me and everyone of ur loving family.Now, though i kept my promise i thought to share with you some questions, which made me to think about this life. I Became the one whom you wanted to be, now am confused to choose the path, my path is being broken into pieces because of many obstacles now. From the day you left us, people have changed and your own sons started acting weird. They started making some weird stories about you which are not true at all. Whe...
Read more

My trip to Colorado!!

Image
It is starting month of July and everyone are expecting a Long weekend holiday and excited about their plans and trips. This girl lives far away at West part of USA, which is California state and far away from her friends and family. Though she has a wonderful job but she was miserable with her present situations regarding her work and personal life, She didn't even called her friends and been a month as, she is going through an rough phase at work and personal life due to some financial situations. Suddenly, on 2nd of April she gets a call from her best friend to check the mail and get on to the flight to Colorado. She was in a state of shock,when she saw the itinerary which shows the flight is at 5pm that evening and there is just 2hrs for her to catch the flight!! Astonished, by the itinerary,she called her friend again to tell her that she is not interested of the trip.But her friend,persuaded her to just get on the flight on time and don't think about anything. So...
Read more