Happiness comes with pain!!

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Story begins: 

Note: The above story is not related to anyone and it is an example to support my topic!!

Happiness is a wonderful word she have ever known when she get a chance to see her parents. Not because they will take away her pain but they make her believe that they are behind her to support in her troubles and hurdles she face in her life.

This lady wasn’t happy at all living a life of a stranger in her own country, working a job which has no meaning in her career and trying to be a good wife to a wonderful husband. She was already annoyed with the stress at work but one day she realized that she was getting appreciation all of a sudden. Her colleagues were good these days and she wasn’t feeling betrayed in the company and her managers understand her work. 

Then she thought, maybe I have got happiness after a while though I have been struggling to enjoy it. But, does happiness comes for just a small appreciation at work?

Is being happy is so easy and all you need to do is to be positive?
Is being happy is to keep your family members happy?
Is being happy is to convey your love to your hubby?
Why only pain gains before happiness?

She finally thought happiness is because of her thinking and she feel optimistic that she has been respected at work. One fine day she got to know the news of her becoming a mother and then she thought is it this called happiness?

 As she was optimistic about the baby in her belly and suddenly her optimism raised a lot that everything around her was less stress and her main importance was to protect her baby to grow within her. There is a saying that: “nothing happens until or unless the universe wants to”!!
She thought may be god has a way to show her the true self of being happy is giving birth to a life!!

Is saving a life or giving birth to a life gives happiness?

Can pain be stopped if a life is struggling to live?

Happiness laughs at pain once it overcomes its stage of negativity to optimistic ideas.
She was the happiest person though she was in pain due to work and family but she thought she can manage and what she waited for is to see her baby’s face. Suddenly, an incident shocked her mentally which made her to be in unknown pain than happiness. Her baby tried to make her happy from inside her belly but she was not at all happy and her baby died and she got to see her baby’s face finally with pain of parting from her.

Can she be normal now with her baby’s death? Can she mourn for her baby or she can pray to god for happiness?

A little life in her managed to take her pain to give her happiness but why couldn’t she return the happiness by taking the pain by herself?

She then learnt that its not happiness or pain but Life is a process of happiness with pain which teaches you to suffer and love.

She learnt the true meaning of grieving and a true meaning of love. Life is very small to waste it with all these ideas so, people try to think about how to live this small life with big aims and less thinking and more hardworking!!

Note: The above story is not related to anyone and it is an example to support my topic!!



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